Dating Tips For Guys

How to Find a Dream Girl

2010-10-10T06:10:00.000-07:00

What exactly is your idea of a dream girl? Are you thinking leggy blonde, with a red sports car and money to burn? Wake up! If your dream girl is more the girl next door type, you might actually have a chance of finding her. Face it, the only one meeting the leggy blondes are rock stars and fashion photographers. Set your dreams a little more toward the realistic and you just might get everything that you ever wanted.

If you know what you want, then you will know where to start looking. Just looking for a wild, one night throw down? Your dream girl might be found in the local bar then. Looking for something more serious? You might consider not looking for love in among the drunken and the desperate.

Start your search by sharing what you are looking for with your friends. Wild animals hunt in packs, so why not the human male? The more people you have on the search, the more likely you will turn up a strong candidate or two. The more options, the better the odds are that you will have some success.

Understand that the concept of a dream girl is a malleable one. What you think of as perfect can prove herself vapid and shallow in the blink of a false eyelash. Once your heart gets involved, that girl you have been kind of seeing can suddenly be bumped up to dream girl status. Don't get hung up on what society declares ideal, you never know who you will click with once you are face to face.

So, where do you find your dream girl? She could be anywhere, really. She could be the perky blonde passing you in the hallway at work. She could be the smoldering brunette that washes her clothes in your apartment's laundry room every Thursday night. She might even be the fiery red head that serves you your morning latte. Women are all around you and one of them might very well be your dream girl. You simply have to start talking to them and decide which ones to take out on a date for further consideration.

Remember too, that the dream itself might change when you do find the dream girl. You might have told everybody that you will remain single forever, no ifs, ands or buts about it. Then you meet "her" and everything changes. You start thinking about marriage and having visions of forever. The girl and the dream have changed and you could not be happier. Just think, if you had stayed mule headed about ti, you would have missed out on the opportunity to find this dream girl and the life she has brought with her.

So, smile at the perky blonde or the hot brunette; she just might be your dream girl in hiding. It’s up to you to find her and blow her cover.
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How to Be the Man That Every Woman Wants to Date (3 Killer Seduction Methods For 100% Success)

2009-07-09T02:36:00.001-07:00

Do you think that it's impossible to conjure up attraction between you and a girl? Well, you're wrong - you can build it up if you know the methods. If you can plant those seeds, wouldn't dating be a snap? It'd become a lot easier, and it would get past all those barriers women put up. So exactly how can you do this?

You have to look at dating as a game, in which you must master certain abilities to be successful. The big risk in this game is rejection, which can completely ruin you. Keep reading, and you'll find out how to reduce that risk and become a man who can build up attraction with any woman, anywhere...

Method #1. Be Extraordinary

If you act like another loser who stutters and falls over himself around hot girls, then you'll fail. Make it clear to her that you've got a level head even in stressful situations. Women are drawn to a man who can keep his cool, no matter what.

Some girls will even respond well if you have the balls to just turn away and leave if a conversation isn't going anywhere. A guy who'll stand his ground is rare - a very attractive quality.

Method #2. Act Cool and Fun to Be With

Don't be a broody 'emo' guy - that's a sure way to turn a girl off. On the contrary, if you can make a girl laugh during your chats, then that makes them let down their barriers so you can get in there.

Method #3. Play to Her "Diva" Aspect

Any girl wants to be pampered like a diva, but not by just any old loser. In order to build a connection with her, you need to respect her mind as well. If she sees that you don't, it's over with.

If you're a guy who only wants quick results, then you may want to skip this stuff and go with some secret methods that can build attraction super fast and easily. They're a bit "unethical" - we're talking about psychological tricks and hypnosis seduction techniques.

An example of this sort of technique is "fractionation," which is about taking a woman on an emotional thrill ride during a short conversation, and linking the high points to you. This makes her feel emotionally vulnerable, and can get her to fall for you in just 15 minutes.

But before you use this technique, you must heed this warning...

Fractionation is considered as a 'dark art' tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists. It is described in a step-by-step system in the Deadly Seduction Manuscript (http://www.DeadlySeduction.com).

These psychology tactics are highly unconventional techniques that are used by the secret elite in the seduction community. Use at your own risk. I personally vouch for the effectiveness of these tactics, but care must be taken as they could be outright dangerous in the hands of the unscrupulous.

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How to Use Heavy Duty Seduction Tactics To Win Women Over

2009-07-08T02:35:00.001-07:00

Have you ever thought about why some men seem to "get lucky" with girls? They seem to have the ability to have women drooling over them in seconds.

So what is the secret that these men know that you don't? We have got the answer! Keep on reading, and you'll find out exactly what these powerful tricks are, and how to use them yourself to get better with women in just minutes...

How to Draw Women In - Using "Heavy Duty" Seduction Tactics

Method No.1 - "Acting Aloof." Acting aloof and nonchalant can be a surprisingly effective and 'shrewd' seduction tactic. Pay attention now - here's exactly how you use this trick to its fullest potential. You start by showering her with your attention, making her feel like she is the center of the world. Then, without prior indications whatsoever, stop giving her attention and ignore her completely.

This has the effect of confusing her, and soon she will crave to get your attention back. As a result, she will come chasing after you in order to get you to talk to her again. Confusing her is the name of the game here!

Method No. 2 - "Becoming the Center of Drama." This technique can get a woman to become 'emotionally dependent' on you almost instantly. Women are drawn to drama because it provides an escape from the mundane and boring life that she is living. Give her drama and she will be yours...forever!

It's vital that she gets both the emotional highs and lows - both joy and sadness, pain and bliss. This is referred to as the "hot and cold" strategy. It may sound strange, but have faith and use this tactic - she'll be powerless against you. One variation on this tactic, called "fractionation," can cause a woman to become infatuated with you in just 15 minutes. It's brutally effective, but also quite controversial.

But before you use this technique, you must heed this warning ... Fractionation is considered as a 'dark art' tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists. It is described in a step-by-step system in the Deadly Seduction Manuscript (http://www.DeadlySeduction.com).

How to Make Her Feel HOT For YOU!

2009-07-07T09:55:00.001-07:00

Most guys do a lot of things to turn off the prettiest women. They become little puppy dogs the minute they are in the presence of a hot woman and they start to try to appear like the "perfect" guy. Thinking this will really make her hot, they keep on with this and guess what? They actually do more to make her feel the opposite of what they are trying to make her feel.

Look, if you're the kind of guy that when he meets a beautiful woman, he doesn't know what to say or do, make sure you don't start groveling at her feet and thinking that this is what is going to get her turned on. You'll be disappointed when it DOESN'T work!

What should you be doing instead?

You have to be saying the things that are going to make her think about you differently than all of the other guys that already approach her. And you better believe that there are many, many guys that are doing the same exact thing that you are.

The prettier the girl is, the more men she has that are all too willing to wait on her hand and foot. And if you do the same, do you think that you are going to somehow stand out in her mind.

If you want to know how to make her hot for you, then that is the first thing that you have to do. You have to be the one guy that stands out from the rest. And no, that doesn't mean you have to be the richest guy or to have Hulk Hogan like biceps

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Stealthy Secrets to Seducing a Woman Who Already Has a Boyfriend

2009-06-28T04:11:00.001-07:00

Before we begin, you must know that these tactics are not for everyone. We've all had that secret desire for another man's girlfriend, but using these tips could put you in a tough position with the girl's boyfriend. Since that's out of the way, let me just show you how powerful this can actually be...

There are two devastatingly effective tactics that work almost every time. If you're the type of person who isn't afraid to use them, they become secret weapons that will have women melting in your presence forever.

When two countries go to war, each country will sit around a table and try to think of every weakness their opponent will have. Using this, they will exploit that weakness, no matter what it is. The first tactic that you should use is founded in the same concept.

Identify the weak points in the already existing relationship. You can get this by talking to the woman candidly and openly by first becoming friends with her. You can slightly and subtly ask her in what ways is her relationship lacking. You'll be surprised at how much she reveals to you.

The important thing to note here is not to focus on the boyfriend's problems, but the relationship problems. This way you're actually focusing on her needs. Then you can subtly point out how you would treat a woman differently and how your relationships have never had those problems (or maybe they have, but you've learned your mistakes and you'll never make them again).

Second, you should never tell a woman that you're interested in her or would be perfect for her. You should always hint at it, but never tell her bluntly. This will drive her crazy because she'll always be comparing you to her current boyfriend without you actually telling her to. If you follow step 1, then she'll automatically think you're the better guy.

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What Women Look For in the Men They Date - Tips to Approach and Date the Woman of Your Choice!

2009-06-26T12:34:00.001-07:00

Most women have certain similar qualities they look for in the men they date. Looks may play a role, but can be made up for if the man presents himself in the correct manner. For instance, have you ever seen a average looking guy out with a complete bombshell (that appears to be way out of his league)? The answer is, of course, we all have.

These men have figured out a way to present themselves to women in a manner that makes them very desirable even though they might not have model like looks. This article will discuss these qualities, and how they've been helping ugly guys get laid for years.

Tips to Impress The Woman you Want to Date

First thing to beware of when your first getting to know a woman you are interested in is, Don't come on too strong. If you come on too strong, you will often appear as needy or desperate.

Confidence is something that all women are attracted to, but there is a fine line between confident and cocky, and it's important not to cross that line. So don't talk about yourself the whole time and try to appear interested in what she is saying.

This brings me to my next tip, which is be a good listener. Many women just want someone to sit back and listen to what they are thinking. This will score you major points with most women.

Being humorous and well spoken is also very important. Women like men that are intelligent, and everyone likes to be around someone with a good sense of humor.

Smiling and eye contact is my next tip. Eye contact will show women that you are paying attention to them, and you will appear interested, even if your not. Smiling will let her know you're enjoying her company.

These are just a few things women look for in the men they date. Apply some of these tips when trying to attract the woman your interested in, and results will be seen.

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Make HER Want YOU

2009-06-25T12:35:00.001-07:00

Most guys are never going to get past the point where they want the girl more than she wants you. And this is exactly what you need to do if you want to deal with less problems, attract more women, and really have a much better sex life in general.

See, most guys don't make their girls hot with desire. They make them feel all warm and cuddly. Who gets laid and who pays? The guy that makes her hot with desire gets laid and the guy that makes her feel all warm and gooey inside pays. That's how it works, fellas.

If you want women to swoon all over you and rock your world, then you have to make them hot with desire and there is no other way of getting around that. Think about it. Why be the guy that opens all of the doors and pays for all of the meals and still ends up with his hand as his best friend?

Doesn't make sense, does it?

So, why are you still trying the same old things to try to make her like you. Make her want you instead. And trust me, there is a HUGE difference!

Do you have to become a jerk? NO!

But, you cannot continue to be a push over and expect that to work. Switch it up. Make her feel the uneasiness of wondering if you really like her. Make her feel the heat from seeing you give other girls some attention now and again

Most of all, don't do what 99% of all guys do. You want her to WANT YOU and not the other way around!

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How to Make Her Beg You For Your Attention - 3 Ultimate Seduction Tactics You Must Know

2009-06-25T02:07:00.001-07:00

If you want to be good with women - everything comes down to your attitude towards other people and how you personally portray yourself. This is a problem for the majority of guys out there because they have no idea which attitude to portray when women are around.

Because of this, they end up without the woman of their dreams. However, you are about to find out the best seduction strategy ever that will make any woman you want beg and grovel for you, no matter how obese or how ugly you may be. Keep reading to find out all about this strategy and how you can quickly receive mind-blowing results...

How to Make Her Beg You For Your Attention - 3 Ultimate Seduction Tactics You Must Know

1. "Actively Show Disinterest"

A highly effective tactic when it comes to female seduction would be never showing her a lot of interest, no matter how hot this woman may be. If you portray a lot of importance towards her looks, consider your woman gone. This tactic works because she will be able to separate you from the crowd of other men who also worship her for her drop-dead gorgeous looks. You want to be different, not blend in.

2. "Show that You Can Walk Away from Her Whenever You Wish"

You need to let her know that you can walk away from her whenever you wish, so that she won't misbehave. Do not show her that she has any power over you. Instead, if she ever plays a trick on you, call her out. This will show her who's the boss in the relationship.

3. "Use Hypnosis"

Although this trick is covert, it happens to be highly effective. If you learn several tactics of hypnosis, you can apply them on her and make her do whatever you want her to do. One of these tactics is more commonly known as 'fractionation'. This technique involves bringing a woman through an emotional rollercoaster, and in the process make her emotionally addicted to you. As a result, she will become 'obedient' and will do anything you ask her to.

But before you use this technique, you must heed this warning...

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Everything You Need to Know! (Dating Tips For Guys)

2009-06-18T22:45:00.001-07:00

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Because of their so-called machismo nature, men tend to detach from their true feelings hence women find it a little difficult to create a connection with them. Based on the observation of women, men are either too shy or arrogant. Because of this, they do not make the first impressions and the first date turns out to be a disaster. And in the end women are no longer interested for the forthcoming dates. The arrogance and the shy nature of men need to be reformed as there is no way for you to score the dates you really like. And it is also through their men ego that they think that they no longer need the help and dating tips for guys of the experts. These experts have been through your situation so as a novice player in the dating field; make sure to take note of the important dating tips.

Seeking helpful dating tips for guys does not lesson your "machismo." Instead, you will surely impress the ladies out there because are now a master in carrying a perfect and fun date. A shy guy needs to loosen up while the arrogant wants to be properly guarded on the right things to say. The do's and don'ts of dating are not complicated and you can instantly familiarize them in no time at all. Basically, the rules in dating can be summed up in three important dating tips for guys: keep it real, believe in yourself and understand that sometimes women have different ways as men.

Believing in yourself is an important trait but can be quite challenging if you do not know your real worth. Take note that everyone is not born to be perfect. So learn to deal with a less than perfect life. In your growing up years you may have been bullied by your classmates and this takes away your true worth as a person and your self-esteem. Many are a little disheartened because they seem to do not know their self-worth. But you have to remember that even the smallest things matter. You are special in your own ways. And that really matters. If you are observant even in the tiniest details, this is still an important trait as women appreciate men who are a sensitive.

Also, it would matter if you develop the things that you can offer to the world. This would build your confidence because you know that you can be proud of any achievement you gain. Following these dating tips for guys can surely get you on track on having successful dates with women. But if you have a long-list of credentials, it would be better to not brag about them in the entire date duration. This would create an impression to women that you are arrogant. Stay real but not too arrogant. And by staying real, start taking off your mask. Women would appreciate if you are true to your feelings and yourself.

These dating tips for guys is not actually aimed at getting all the women that guys want in order to feed their pumping ego. These would just help men improve their ways of handling women on dates.

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Five Important Dating Tips for Guys

2009-06-18T05:07:00.001-07:00

One of the biggest obstacles guys run into on the dating scene is finding women who aren't interested in nice guys. Oh sure, that's what they say they want to find, but that doesn't stop them from dating every not-so-nice guy that comes down the pike. So what's a nice guy to do? Buy a biker jacket and start slapping people around? Well, no, that strategy is ill advised. But it is possible to gain yourself a bit of an edge, and keep yourself from being put into the friends category by every hot woman you happen to meet. To do so, here are five important dating tips for guys.

TIP #1: Stop Qualifying Yourself

One of the things that turns women off the fastest is a guy who is trying everything in the book to impress them. This lowers your value, and the woman can sense it. After a certain point, nothing you can do or say will change her mind. Go into a date, or a meeting situation with the idea that she has to prove herself to you, not the other way around. In this way, she will sense your confidence and that will be an attraction in and of itself.

TIP#2: Let Her Fill the Silence

Ever out on a date, and you feel compelled to fill every silence with moronic chat and meaningless questions. Don't do it! Let the silence spin out. Let her feel the pressure. If she has nothing to say, then why would you want to date her anyway? There are plenty of girls out there like this, dumb as boards, and couldn't fill a conversation because they have no subjects on which they can converse. So just let the silence rule all, and plan to date someone else next time.

TIP #3: Don't Let Your Desperation Show

This goes hand in hand with the first two tips. Girls are attracted to guys they feel might be a little bit difficult to obtain. If you go in with both guns blazing, and a desperate sweat on your upper brow, forget about it. It will never happen in a million years. Not even the most un-dateable woman wants a guy that no one else wants.

TIP#4: Make Sure She Knows (Or Thinks) You Have Options

Don't be afraid to talk about other women. Don't do it to the point where it becomes obnoxious, but one or two mentions won't hurt. This goes to show that if she's not into you, well, there's plenty of other girls that are. She'll be the one missing out. Also, this has the added bonus of making her think other girls must see something in you, so why shouldn't she? It wouldn't hurt to have some photos handy showing you with other girls in friendly situations.

TIP #5: Get Over Your Fear of Rejection

Everyone's been rejected. Don't take it so personally. It's going to happen, so just make up your mind to deal with it and move on. The more rejections you rack up, the closer you'll be coming to getting an acceptance. No one else has to know how many "no's" you had to hear before you got a "yes," right?

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Online Dating 101 - Online Dating Basics

2009-03-12T02:55:00.001-07:00

Feeling like there's something that's just not quite there yet in how you're going about this whole online dating thing? Don't feel bad, chances are you're one of the many people who're still pretty new to this gig. Heck, internet dating has only been around for about eight years, so obviously no one out there can claim to have all the answers.

But hey, seeing that we've been perfecting the art of matching people up online all eight of those years, we'd like to share a little of what we've learned about how to make the best of your online experience. Who knows, one of these pointers might be just what you've been missing in perfecting your own online dating adventures.

Therefore, without further ramblings, here are the:

TOP 10 TIPS FOR SUCCESSFUL ONLINE DATING

SAY CHEESE!
Look your best and submit a great photo of yourself for your profile photo. A good picture really is worth a thousand words, and research shows that you are nearly 10 times more likely to be noticed if you post a photo to your profile.

And, the same stats hold true when you contact someone you've noticed on the site. If you don't have a photo, don't be surprised if the responses aren't too quick in coming back.

Now, don't get mad a start making accusations about all the shallow people out there. While it may be true that some people place too much emphasis on physical appearances, the bottom line is it does make a difference when two people are meeting and making initial evaluations of their interest in each other. And, it's also a trust thing. It is always going to be much easier to interact with a face than with a blank box.

FRESH IS GOOD
Change your profile picture and greeting occasionally, add photos to your photo album, and login regularlythis will not only get you noticed, but it will help others get a more varied and up-to-date idea of what constitutes the real you.

When something interesting happens in your life, tell us about it in your profile greeting. This is a great way to let your online friends in on what it might be like to actually spend time with you. That's the main goal of online dating isn't it, to find people you'd finally like to meet and spend time with face-to-face? Anyways, it's always more fun to hear about a crazy experience you've just had than to read the same old descriptions of you and your cat that have been on your profile for months now.

As for photo albums, this is the icing on the cake. Not only do these photos round out and confirm the physical picture your friends are forming of you, but they also go a long way in helping others really see what makes you "you." The head and shoulders shot of you in your profile photo is nice and all, but when they see you hanging 10, running with your Chihuahua, or shoving a big fat piece of cheesecake in your mouth now they're getting to know you.

I HAVE CONFIDENCE IN ME
Have fun describing yourself without making excuses about why you're on the site or who convinced you to finally go online. Tell us what makes you unique.

Believe it or not, being an online dater no longer places you on the fringes of society or even in the minority. Online dating has grown up and moved into the mainstream, and so you can now happily assume that the face-saving qualifiers of past times online are now obsolete. And, more importantly, just realize that they don't help your cause when meeting others online.

One more thing try to be original. Yes, I'm sure you really do like the outdoors and want to meet someone who looks good in a tux and in jeans, but so does everyone else! Tell us some things about yourself that wouldn't necessarily come out in an elevator conversation with your tax accountant. For example, what are you passionate about? What would you do if no longer had to work for a living? What's your favorite flavor of gelato? Do you secretly wish everyday was sampling day at the grocery store? now it' getting interesting!

HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY
Don't be fooled thinking telling fibs will impress that special someone enough to get relationship started... it will turn them off! Be your best self.

When you really stop and think about it, what do you think your new friend's reaction is going to be if when you meet for the first time it's obvious you're not the person they thought they were going to be meeting? "Oh .. hi. I see that you've been dishonest with me from the get-go here, but hey, I'm still thinking we've got a great shot at having an open, trusting relationship for the long-term" Obviously not.

They're going to be hurt, and disappointed. And, your relationship is unlikely to get past the wave goodbye as your friend gets back in their car to go home.

IT'S NICE TO BE NICE
Okay, so you get a little grouchy once in a whiledon't we all? However, people like nice people. Please be considerate and polite it will make this whole online thing so much more enjoyable for all of us!

There's an interesting social phenomenon researchers have discovered in online interactions. They've found people often change their standards of politeness and diplomacy when a conversation is happening online, versus face-to-face.

Don't believe it? You might be surprised if you were to go back and look at some of the things you've said. Look at some messages you've sent, and then consider saying the exact same words in a face-to-face or a telephone conversation. Sound a little rough? Don't feel too bad, it happens to the best of us, just try to keep this in mind the next time you're typing out an email or instant message.

One more thingplease don't ignore people. A quick "thanks, but no thanks" note is so much better than no reply at all. In fact, next time you're replying to a message on the site, check out the new "Thanks but No Thanks" template. It's a quick way to nicely let someone know you're not interested in corresponding.

YOU CAN PICK YOUR FRIENDS
Invite your friends along! Create Activity Groups, go on group dates, try Express Dating, enjoy travel events, and just enjoy the net together. After all, instant messaging alone isn't enough to build solid relationships.

Group dating and group events simply make a lot of sense for online dating. Not only does it make those first dates less stressful, it often makes them more fun, and it definitely makes first meetings a much safer proposition.

Have you ever tried Activity Groups? They're a great way to meet people with common interests in a safe, fun group setting. You can join a group that's already been created, or you can create your own and invite all your friends to join and their friends and their friends you get the point.

BREAK OUTA THAT SHELL
Don't be afraid to make the first contact. Online dating makes it easy for all you shy ones out there to break the ice, because you get to do all the initial getting to know each other from the comfort and safety of your own computer.

To start, just send a Flirt or a quick email message saying Hiand do it often! You might be surprised how many of our great members suffer from lack of attention from their online peers. Not only might you find someone with whom you're very interested in maintaining contact, but you'll probably be making someone's day.

EXPAND YOUR HORIZONS
If your first internet efforts haven't turned up "the perfect one," don't despair. Hundreds of new people sign up every day on the site, so just come back to see Who's New. You may also want to consider expanding your searchesdon't be too intent on sticking to your itemized checklist for eternal mates.

You might also want to try some different searches from time to time. Because there are about a million different things you might find attractive in another person, it's nice to mix up the criteria you're searching on once in a while. For example, you can search by their Occupation, any Keyword or combination of keywords you can think
of, and many others.

UH OH THIS MIGHT ACTUALLY BE FUN!
Don't be afraid to have some fun along your path to relationship happiness! Enjoy getting to know people and understand that many happy relationships and even marriages start with a good ol' friendship. And, don't rush it!

You've heard animals can sense fear? Well, we humans can be pretty perceptive as well (except for that one guy who just can't take a hint). So, don't think others can't sense when you're frustrated, dejected, conceited, holier than thou, fed up, etc. etc. Put a smile on, and enjoy the ride, because even if the first few people you meet aren't Mr./Mrs. Right, it doesn't mean you can't have some fun in good
conversations with them.

You may also need to be a little bit patient as you head off into the brave new world of online dating. Not all marriages are "love at first site," and even if yours is, it may take a lot of looking before you "site" that special someone. And so, once again enjoy the ride!

USE YOUR NOODLE
Ya know, that gray matter between your ears? That's your noodle. Use it! Be smart, be cautious, and follow our safety guidelines, your instincts, and the spirit in all your dating activity.

Done right, online dating is a lot of fun, and it's a great way to meet some wonderful people just ask the thousand-plus people we've had submit success stories to us in the past few years! So, enjoy it, and follow these ten tips, and hopefully we'll be getting a success story from you sometime soon.

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Dating Advice: How Guys Screw Up First Dates

2008-12-29T02:06:00.000-08:00

I get a lot of guys who write in to ask me for dating advice on how to behave around women. Many of those questions focus on the first meeting or the first date.

I thought I'd devote one entire newsletter to a concept that I feel is VITAL to understand if you're wondering how to behave around a woman you've just met.

A MISTAKE ALMOST EVERY GUY MAKES

I've noticed a KEY difference between the way men and women act when they meet a "potential mate".

Women usually act in a way that can be characterized like this:

"You're interesting to me. I'd like to get to know you better, and we can see where this goes."

Men usually act in a way that can be characterized like this:

"I am so interested in you that I'm nervous. In fact, I'm already thinking of you as a potential girlfriend or wife... or at least a one-night stand."

In other words, women are usually casual and laid-back when they're first meeting a guy...

But GUYS tend to act like every girl is a POTENTIAL WIFE.

As you can imagine, this creates a lot of tension and pressure.

And I'm not talking about the GOOD kind, either.

I'm talking about the kind that makes men shiver and shake with nervousness, and women feel uncomfortable because the MAN is acting uncomfortable.

I KNOW that you can relate to this in some way.

THE ANSWER

The simple dating advice here is...

DON'T DO IT.

If you start acting all freakish and nervous when you're talking to a woman, you're probably going to screw things up before they've even had a chance to get started.

Treating a woman that you've just met as if she very well could be the love of your life is something you should NEVER do.

Instead, take a very different approach.

My favorite is to ASSUME that every woman has SOMETHING that's going to annoy me, bother me, or SCREW UP HER CHANCES with me.

The MAIN reason that I do this...

SURPRISE...

IS THAT IT'S TRUE!

Duh.

The fact is that MOST women are NOT compatible "long term" with most men. In other words, there if you do get into a long-term relationship with a particular woman, the chances are that she's going to have things about her that you don't like.

One of my favorite Cocky & Funny themes to follow is "You're screwing up your chances with me".

Let's say I'm walking down the street with a girl to have a cup of tea. Let's assume that she and I just met the night before, I got her number, and now we're walking from my place to tea.

On the way in the door to the coffee shop, she trips over the doorway.

I might look at her, shake my head in an "overly dramatic fake annoyed" way, and say "This relationship just isn't going to work".

Then, let's say fifteen minutes later she spills her tea on the table and herself.

I'll shake my head again and say "What did I tell you about this kind of behavior?".

In other words, I'm communicating the very OPPOSITE of "You're a potential wife". I'm saying "I'm so comfortable around you that I can even make fun of you without caring what you think of me".

Does this sound a little crazy?

Good. It should.

But trust me.

If you spend a couple of hours having regular, normal conversation... being Cocky & Funny, enjoying yourself, NOT trying to impress her, and generally demonstrating that you could care less how things turn out, you'll be FAR more likely to take things further than if you act as if she might be the love of your life and you wind up acting so nervous, stilted, and DUMB that she runs away.

So here it is your bit of dating advice... one thing that most guys who are unsuccessful with women do that screws things up... one thing to AVOID:

DON'T TREAT A WOMAN YOU'VE JUST MET AS IF SHE'S A POTENTIAL FUTURE WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND.

Instead, lean back. Be cool. Make jokes about her screwing up her chances with you. Tell her that she's a nice friend. Assume that she has qualities that are going to annoy you, then point them out (in a Cocky & Funny way, of course).

Don't lose your composure. It can be fatal if you do.

Another bit of dating advice:

Most guys don't "get" women.

And, unfortunately, most guys look for tricks and "pick up lines" when it comes time to LEARN how to meet women.

They don't realize that all the tricks in the world aren't going to help them if they don't UNDERSTAND what's "going on".

Nice guys finish last

2008-07-25T10:29:00.000-07:00

It's official: women the world over are drawn to bad boys, according to scientific research.

Arrogant, impulsive, self-obsessed, deceitful men beat the good guys in the attractive leagues, according to the survey, and secret agent James Bond epitomises that fact.

It's not just his debonair looks, charm and swagger that attract women to James Bond, but it is his 'badness' that women are most drawn to, with scientists hailing him as the ultimate ladykiller, the Daily Mail reports.

Writing in New Scientist magazine, scientist Peter Jonason said: "He's clearly disagreeable, very extroverted and likes trying new things – killing people, new women."

But why is it that when it comes to the attraction leagues, nice guys often finish last. It might have something to do with the fact that, while women think they want stability and someone who will treat them right, the truth is that the overwhelming sense of excitement that they can get from a bad boy is far more attractive.

In the study conducted at New Mexico State University in the US, 200 students were asked to rank themselves according to each of the three 'dark triad' traits – deceitfulness, narcissism and impulsiveness.

Respondents were also asked to jot down their attitudes towards sex and sexual relationships and reveal how many relationships they had been in.

It found that men who had higher 'bad boy' traits were found to have had more partners and were more likely to see short-term flings.

David Schmitt, of Bradley University in Illinois, said: "It's universal across cultures for high dark triad scorers to be more active in short-term mating. They are more likely to try and poach other people's partners for a brief affair."

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Making A Great First Impression On Women

2008-03-17T13:13:00.000-07:00

ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you'd be surprised by how many men don't understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s become a bit of a cliché because it’s true -- first impressions really do count.

Here are some figures to consider from my studies.

If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).

If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions of you were bad.

It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you’re on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success – no helicopters for you.

Honestly, I can't stress this enough -- always try to look your best.

Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions.

Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.

Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out.

Why are shoes my number 5 S?

Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.

What you wear is very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.

Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men's magazine's and imitate the styles you see there -- most women don't really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don't have to spend the Earth on clothing.

Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within days.

Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good - you feel an instant attraction even though you don't know her - well, that's how women feel too.

Wear a good-quality cologne, but don't spray too much.

One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists -- maximum. You don't want to smell too overpowering.

I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called JPG love juice because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!

And here's a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word! And NO rejection either. You won't find this anywhere else either. What you need to do is...

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